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Emotional Eating
Sometimes it isn’t hunger. It’s tiredness, loneliness, anxiety, sadness, or emptiness. Often, we turn to food to try to soothe our emotions, rather than responding to a physical need. This is an experience often associated with emotional eating. Eating can bring comfort for a moment, but when it becomes the main way of coping with difficult emotions, it’s easy to fall into a cycle of overeating, guilt and shame. Learning to listen to what we feel, recognise our triggers and f
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embracing life's finitude for a more fulfilling life
The fear of death is a universal experience because it touches one of the greatest human uncertainties: life's finitude. When this fear is present, it activates an internal protective mechanism that seeks to reduce the threat, and this can cause anxiety, hypervigilance, and affect the way we live. It can lead us to try to control the uncontrollable, avoid the unknown, and choose “safer” paths. It can also influence relationships: drawing closer out of fear of being alone, or
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Feb 21 min read


The value of making mistakes
We are not born afraid of making mistakes. In early life, within a safe enough environment, a baby’s natural impulse is curiosity, and mistakes are simply part of the learning process. There is no self-judgment, no shame, no questioning of self-worth. The fear of failing, disappointing others or not being enough, emerges later, when errors begin to be associated with disapproval, criticism, punishment or the loss of love, attention and belonging. Gradually, this fear settles
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Jan 261 min read


Anxiety and Emotional Balance
When we talk about anxiety and emotional balance, we refer to how anxiety shapes emotions, thoughts and responses to stress, and how, little by little, we can come to understand it better, develop emotional regulation strategies and build a healthier relationship with it. Anxiety is a natural response to a variety of situations, which can include anything from periods of change and uncertainty, to the feeling of a lack of control, to experiencing traumatic events, deep-seated
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Jan 211 min read


Feeling Lost
Feeling lost can be a deeply unsettling experience. It often comes with a sense of uncertainty, lack of direction and inner confusion, as if the path ahead is unclear or completely invisible. In these moments, it is common to experience anxiety, fear, and vulnerability, especially when facing the unknown and questioning our life path, identity, or sense of purpose. Being in this place can be emotionally demanding. It requires introspection, patience, and self-compassion, qual
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Jan 151 min read


Changing limiting beliefs
Limiting beliefs are the negative thoughts and stories we tell ourselves about who we are, what we are capable of and what we deserve. Examples of limiting beliefs include feeling that you do not deserve love or success, believing that you are a bad person, feeling that everything is your fault, or thinking that you are not capable or good enough. These beliefs may originate from criticism, comparisons, childhood experiences and other negative experiences from the past. They
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Jan 71 min read


Self-Acceptance
The search for love and external validation is a profound and common experience, rooted in our need for safety and emotional connection....
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Self-Care As priority
Take care of yourself - Self-care as priority When responsibilities pile up and daily life becomes overwhelmingly demanding, it's easy to...
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Embracing Vulnerability
Although vulnerability is often seen as a sign of weakness, it frequently requires courage. Being vulnerable means allowing others to see...
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Introversion. Embracing your nature.
In a world that favours extroversion, people who identify as introverts, may find it challenging to navigate social expectations that...
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Starting Anew
Regardless of where you are in life, it is always possible to start afresh. Starting anew is not a sign of weakness or failure but rather...
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A meaningful life
🍁 Life's meaning is a deeply personal journey and unique to each individual. It involves exploring your values, passions and what brings...
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Group Art therapy - connection and well-being
🎨 Group art therapy allows us to be creative, explore themes, express emotions and connect with others in a supportive environment. In...
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Managing Change
🍂 Life transitions can have a deep effect on us. These could be moving to a new city or country, changing jobs or careers, starting or...
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Emotions
🌈 Emotions can be seen as a wheel of colours, where each shade blends into the next, creating new feelings. From happiness that...
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Mar 12, 20251 min read


Your mental health matters. Priorize it.
🌿 Your mental health deserves the same attention as your physical health. Take a moment to care for yourself, listen to your feelings...
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Art psychotherapy benefits
Art psychotherapy focuses on improving your mental health, well-being and personal growth. As an art psychotherapist I provide centred...
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Feb 25, 20251 min read


Art and Wellbeing
🎨 Whether through painting, sculpture, drawing or collage, creative expression promotes mindfulness, stress reduction and relaxation,...
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Relationships and Emotional wellbeing
🌱 Having meaningful connections helps us feel understood and valued, which can significantly improve our mental health. Healthy...
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Embracing Resilience
Dealing with disappointment is a common human experience but it can still be hard to navigate it. It’s okay to be upset, sad, lost or...
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